These
are by no means isolated stories but what seems remarkable about the sex
farms and bogus hospitals is the apparent acquiescence of the local
community. In the case of Ijeoma, for
instance, it wasn’t as if she was particularly discreet given that the
neighbours themselves complained that they had observed strange comings
and goings over the last three years without attempting to do anything about
it. Doctors, especially, seem to get away with bluff and bluster but then these
are mostly rural areas where the locals are easily browbeaten by the Big
Men, a pattern replicated all the way to oga at the top.
Still,
not all child sellers are regular criminals. In 2008, a
British journalist from the Daily Telegraph wrote about a married couple in a one-room apartment who
apparently offered their two young sons – three and five - for ‘the price of a
second-hand car’ in order that he might take them to Abroad for a better life.
The mother was quoted as saying that it was ‘hard for us to do this but we are
desperate and this is our last hope'. When they were eventually told that the
prospective buyer was not the Great White Hope of their dreams the husband voiced
his disappointment – ‘We had already started to make plans’ – but added that he
also felt relieved: ‘This must be God’s will.’
The
latest case to hit the headlines involved a mother of four who, in the process
of confessing to having sold four other children, startled even the police by further
confessing that the seven-month foetus she was carrying had already been
sold in advance for N200,000; as she
put it: ‘I was against it but [my husband] convinced me to agree to it, saying he had
already collected the money.’ This was half the price of a child
they had sold earlier in the year: ‘In March 2013, my neighbour’s
son, Stanley Ezeaka, was following me about in the compound at Jakande Estate
and it was at that time that my husband received a phone call from his partner
that she needed a child for sale. My husband then suggested that we took
Stanley even though he was a bit old.’ Hopefully, Stanley has been reunited with
his family but the chances are slim.
It is
possible that some of these children do actually end up with genuine
‘adopters’, like the woman who paid N600,000
for a boy because she was lonely following the death of her husband after a
28-year childless marriage. Perhaps, also, she had been turned down by the
state government adoption agency which charges only a nominal administrative fee but takes its time, Nigerian bureaucracy being what it is. But not even the couple desperate
to sell their two boys could have been unaware of what happens in that Abroad,
for instance Cynthia, who was bought by a Nigerian couple in London when she
was 12 years old to look after their three children and generally skivvy for 16
hours a day for no pay. As she said when she finally managed to escape four
years later: ‘They used any excuse to hit me. I was treated as a slave.’
At least
Cynthia lived to tell the tale. Not so seven-year-old
Samu Danjuma from Nasarawa State who was kidnapped and beheaded by a neighbour
who was promised N250,000 for a fresh human head for ritual purposes. There
is also ‘the case of a baby sacrificed by the wife of a governor of one of the
states grappling with Boko Haram insurgency, to secure her position,’ although
this story, which appeared in only one online publication (Nigeria News, 17
February 2013), has been impossible to corroborate, which is hardly surprising
in a country where no one high up ever gets prosecuted for anything. And in a
country where no records are ever kept, it is equally impossible to guess at how
widespread this practice is. The police, who might otherwise be in a position
to let us know, are often themselves implicated but let us not go there. The
police are a recurring decimal in any story about Nigeria but only because they
are the most visible face of the corruption which makes it all possible.
It remains a pity that many states of the
federation have refused to ratify the Child Rights Act passed by the federal
government a decade ago, and that even those which have done so seem reluctant to
enforce it because it would mean, amongst other things, banning children from
hawking when they should be in school, always assuming that the state
government in question was even interested in educating the children in its
care.
But enough already! Monday is Children’s Day and since we never tire of reminding ourselves that our children are the future – The Young Shall Grow - let us equally celebrate the parents and guardians who struggle against the odds to do the right thing by that same future.
©Adewale Maja-Pearce
and Other Stories, In My Father's Country, How many miles to Babylon?, A
Mask Dancing, Who's Afraid of Wole Soyinka?, From Khaki to Agbada,
Remembering Ken Saro-Wiwa and Other Essays, A Peculiar Tragedy, and
Counting the Cost, as well as the 1998 and 1999 annual reports on human
rights violations in Nigeria. He also edited The Heinemann Book of African
Poetry in English, Wole Soyinka: An Appraisal, Christopher Okigbo:
Collected Poems, The New Gong Book of New Nigerian Short Stories, and Dream Chasers.
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Is this the only voice among you all who will plead for these children ? Is there no-one else who will help them ? Remeber the words of Jesus himself : 'better a millstone be hung round his neck and he be cast into the depths than he should harm one of these my little ones .......'
ReplyDeleteThere is a curse upon the head of anyone who hurts a child as also on those who looks the other way when it happens.